Its a perfect human behavior that I have been experiencing in my surroundings now-a-days. Each human being is fascinated towards the things those are not available to him/her, and this rule is not only applicable for materialistic things but also in our friendship, relationship, job everywhere.
We always run behind the things which are elusive to us, we dream for something and after achieving it we dream bigger. But this rule should be applicable only for the materialistic things not for the friendship or relationship. If you want a better job, then this is perfectly fine. If you want to have comfort in your life, It is also perfectly fine. But if you look out for better relationship and friendship on cost of the existing one than it is surely not good. You should learn to know the importance of different things in your life, you can not apply the same logic everywhere. You can get bored of things, but getting bored of friendship and relationship is not acceptable. At the same time for the receiver I should tell you should not be too available for anyone otherwise you will lose your importance in that person's life. But the receiver is not wrong he/she is certainly following the rules of friendship/relationship of never to leave the company of your mate in any situation.
I have seen lot of examples recently in my surroundings and I feel whatever is the situation, whomsoever you are referring to, just don't let others to put down your importance and value... Although sometimes it becomes unavoidable to do the same, but at that moment the others should be so important and generous so that for them you can do anything...
We always run behind the things which are elusive to us, we dream for something and after achieving it we dream bigger. But this rule should be applicable only for the materialistic things not for the friendship or relationship. If you want a better job, then this is perfectly fine. If you want to have comfort in your life, It is also perfectly fine. But if you look out for better relationship and friendship on cost of the existing one than it is surely not good. You should learn to know the importance of different things in your life, you can not apply the same logic everywhere. You can get bored of things, but getting bored of friendship and relationship is not acceptable. At the same time for the receiver I should tell you should not be too available for anyone otherwise you will lose your importance in that person's life. But the receiver is not wrong he/she is certainly following the rules of friendship/relationship of never to leave the company of your mate in any situation.
I have seen lot of examples recently in my surroundings and I feel whatever is the situation, whomsoever you are referring to, just don't let others to put down your importance and value... Although sometimes it becomes unavoidable to do the same, but at that moment the others should be so important and generous so that for them you can do anything...
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